10 Questions to Ask Your Wedding DJ Before You Book

Wedding planning
10 Questions to Ask Your Wedding DJ Before You Book
By Tim Daymond, DJ since 1976 · Updated 22 October 2026 · 6 minute read
Norfolk’s Only Trading Standards Approved DJ · Rated 4.9 out of 5 from more than 250 reviews
I’ve played weddings across Norfolk, Suffolk, Cambridgeshire and Lincolnshire since 1976. These are the questions I’d ask if I were choosing entertainment for my own wedding. I’ve also added my personal answer under each one, so you can recognise a professional response.
Most couples only ask two things: “Are you available?” and “How much?” Both matter, of course. However, neither tells you whether the entertainment will actually deliver on the night. So use this checklist with every DJ you consider, including me.

Safety and Trust Questions for Your Wedding DJ
1. Will you be the DJ on the night?
Many entertainment companies operate as agencies. As a result, the person you meet may not be the person who arrives. So always ask for the DJ’s name in writing.
How I answer it: It’s me at every booking. I’ve never missed a booking, and I’ve never sent anybody else in my place.
2. Do you have public liability insurance?
Most venues ask for it before the DJ can set up. In fact, without it, a venue can refuse entry altogether. Therefore, ask to see the certificate itself, not simply a promise.
How I answer it: I hold £10 million cover. Your certificate is also waiting online, ready to forward to your venue.
3. Is your equipment PAT tested?
Venues often request evidence that electrical equipment is safe. Hotels, schools and country houses usually check this before setting up. So a professional DJ always has the paperwork ready.
How I answer it: Yes. Every piece of equipment passes regular safety testing, and the certificate is available online.
4. Are you DBS checked?
This matters whenever children and vulnerable guests attend your celebration. After all, many families invite young nieces, nephews and elderly grandparents.
How I answer it: Yes, I hold an Enhanced DBS check.
Contract and Payment Questions for Your Wedding DJ
5. Will I get a written contract?
A contract protects you both. It should state the date, times, venue, price and what happens if plans change. Also, read the cancellation terms carefully before signing anything.
How I answer it: Every booking comes with a written contract, ready to sign in your client portal.
6. How much is the deposit, and when is the balance due?
Know exactly what you pay and when, before you commit to anything.
How I answer it: A 45% deposit secures your date. The balance follows no later than 4 weeks before the wedding. Also, you can pay by card or bank transfer, and monthly plans are available.
Music and Venue Questions for Your Wedding DJ
7. How do we plan the music together?
Your music should sound like you, not like the DJ’s favourite playlist. Also, ask how the DJ balances guest requests against your personal preferences.
How I answer it: You choose your first dance, must-plays and Do-Not-Play list online. Then, on the night, guests can send guest requests by QR code.
8. What happens if the venue has a sound limiter?
Some venues cut the power when the music gets too loud. For example, barns, village halls and country houses often install one. So an experienced DJ plans for this carefully.
How I answer it: I plan the set-up around the limiter, so the music keeps playing all evening. My guide to wedding DJs and sound limiters explains how.
Price and Proof Questions for Your Wedding DJ
9. Are your prices fixed?
Hidden extras can turn a reasonable quote into an expensive bill. So ask for the full list of inclusions. Then compare quotes on what you actually receive, not simply the headline figure.
How I answer it: Yes. Every package has one fixed price, with everything listed. Wedding packages start from £525, and travel is free across all four counties. See my wedding packages for the details.
10. Can you show independent proof that you’re trustworthy?
Reviews help, but independent checks are considerably stronger.
How I answer it: I’m Trading Standards Approved, vetted by Norfolk County Council (Trusted Trader ID 0000457). Couples also rate me 4.9 out of 5 from more than 250 reviews.
The Questions I Ask You in Return
A good DJ wants to understand your wedding, not just your date. So before I accept a booking, I ask four questions of my own.
- What is your venue, and does it have a sound limiter?
- Have you confirmed the date with your venue?
- What is on your must-play list and your Do-Not-Play list?
- How do you picture the room at midnight: dancing, or winding down?
These answers tell me whether I can genuinely deliver the evening you imagine. Above all, they show that I care about your celebration, not just my diary.
Free Tools to Go With Your Questions for a Wedding DJ
These free planning tools help you compare suppliers and organise the music. Plus, every one works perfectly on your phone.
Supplier Booking TimelineSee when to book each supplier for your wedding date.Use it free →
DJ Must-Play & Do-Not-Play ListMust-plays, first dance and do-not-plays on one sheet.Use it free →
Wedding Day Contact SheetEvery supplier’s name and number on one page.Use it free →
Comparing several DJs? Then print my DJ comparison checklist, or read my DJ booking questions page. You can also browse the full free wedding toolbox.
More Questions for Your Wedding DJ
How far ahead should we book a wedding DJ?
Popular dates go early, so book once your venue confirms the date. You can also check my availability online in under a minute.
Should we meet the DJ before we book?
Yes, if possible. A telephone call works too. Above all, you should know exactly who will play your wedding before paying a deposit.
What should a wedding DJ include as standard?
Ask for the complete list. For instance, my packages include professional sound, LED lighting, a playlist planner and live requests at one fixed price.
What is the single most important question?
Ask who will play on the night. Everything else depends on that answer, so get the name in writing. With me, you also get an Enhanced DBS check and monthly plans if you need them.
Is travel included in the price?
Yes, travel anywhere in Norfolk, Suffolk, Cambridgeshire and Lincolnshire is included in the price.
Will you play clean versions of songs?
Yes. My software cuts swearing out of tracks as they play, so families can relax.
How quickly will I get a quote?
I usually reply within two to three hours during business hours. Otherwise, you hear from me the next morning.
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